You might mean well but your helicopter parenting will cause more harm than good
Harvard has been discriminating against Asian-Americans for years. Just because you have perfect test scores, grades, community service and extra curricular activities, you can still be turned away because of your race
Making sure you have time to spend with your family, without distractions, is just as important for your child as her soccer games and violin lessons. Make sure your child knows you want to spend time with her and make the effort to give her your undivided attention.
Having active listening skills will greatly improve your child's social and academic life. Not to mention, a child who can actively listen and respond to situation will have a stronger self of self-reliance and leadership skills.